Monday, May 26, 2008

In Memory Of

When we lived in Utah, Memorial Day was a day that we would spend with Grandma Adamson. The day would start with a pancake breakfast across the street from her house in Woods Cross. The breakfast included people playing the bagpipes, my Grandma's favorite part! Afterwords, we would drive around to the cemeteries in the Salt Lake Area to place flowers on the graves of our loved ones.

The first stop was the Bountiful Cemetery. We were able to see three graves there, my brother Troy, my niece Johannah and my cousin Alexander. I often think about my brother Troy. He was my parents oldest and died after an hour and a half from phenomena. It is comforting to know that I will be able to be with and know him again.

I will never forget my nieces funeral. She was three months old when she died. Her funeral was pretty much the first time that I realized that Families are Eternal. My sister will be with their daughter again and so will I. I cherish the memories that I have while I was able to hold her.

On the way to the cemeteries Grandma would share stories about her life growing up, about my father and Grandfather. I was twelve when my Grandpa Adamson died from complications from a stroke. His funeral was during my first year of girls camp so I decided, along with my two sisters, to go to girls camp instead of to the funeral. That year at camp I grew so close to my sisters in ways that I would have never imagined. I remember the day of the funeral was a really hard day for all of us.

When my Grandma would get to her husbands grave she would write the words "I love you" on his grave with pine cones. It was very touching. Since she has passed away, I hope that her grandchildren or her children continue to do this tradition.

I truly cherished the moments that I was able to spend with my Grandma Adamson. She was the kind of person that made everyone feel special. Everyone thought she was Grandmas favorite because she treated us all that way. I remember one day just popping over to her home and she was not there. We went across the street to play at the park for a couple of minutes and we found that she was at the park at an Enrichment Night for her ward. She was so excited to see us and introduced us to everyone. Another great memory of her is that she loved going to Paces Dairy Ann in Bountiful. It has great hamburgers and great shakes! Every time we go to Utah, I have to go to Paces. She would take me there and she always got a cherry marshmallow shake. It was fun. She had the biggest heart and was continuously serving others. She had such a strong testimony and she constantly shared it with us and with others. The Christmas before she died she gave each of her children and grandchildren a video of her bearing her testimony to us. This is a treasure that I will always cherish.

My Grandma and Grandpa Darley also had a special place in my heart. My Grandpa was great at telling stories about the war and about Airplanes. He loved birds and could tell you the different kinds of birds that came into his back yard. My Grandma was so kind and loved holding my children when they were babies. One day Mitchell and I took both Grandma Adamson and Grandma Darley to Antelope Island. They both had the greatest time talking with each other. We took a picture of the two of them eating at a picnic table. I did not notice that I had this picture until I developed my film after Grandma Adamson died. It is a very special picture.

I am so thankful for the many people that I have had in my life that have passed on such a wonderful legacy. I love each one of them and can not wait until I get to hold them and hug them once more.
Raising the Flag
My dear friend Peggy invited us to go to her house for a Memorial Day Flag raising. She is in my workout class at the gym and is so sweet, she reminds me of my Grandma Adamson. I am not sure if you have heard of the show on TLC called "Little People Big World" but they are her children and grandchildren. She was given a very special flag from a friend of hers that was flown last Christmas on a mission in Iraq.
Here her husband, Ron, is telling us about he significance of the flag.

We had a little parade around the block where we sang some patriotic songs and the girls blew horns.

While the flag was being raised we sang the Star Spangled Banner and cited the Pledge of Allegiance.

It was a very touching experience to watch the flag being raised then lowered to half mass for the people who have been killed in Iraq. I am so thankful for all of the men and women who are fighting so that I can be free to choose what I want. I hope that one day my children will truly understand the meaning of freedom and the meaning of our great American Flag.

Saturday, May 24, 2008

AHH!

So I was determined to find out how to change the look of my blog without using a template and I finally figured out how to with the help from my friend Kim and the internet. I also learned how to make my header. Wow I have learned a lot.

I thought that once I learned how to do it that I would keep the same look to my blog, but I can't it is too much fun to change around. I will just have to start making backgrounds for everyone elses blogs. :)

I think it is now time to pay attention to my kids and husband.

Friday, May 23, 2008

My Day In Pictures

Every morning I get to wake up to this sweet face right next to me. You would think that the picture would be the sweet face of my husband, but NO, it is my daughter Hailey. Somehow she ends up in my bed, almost every night, and I am so used to it that I do not even wake up to put her back into her own bed. Who could resist a face like this? Every year our elementary school does a fundraiser called Run For Fun. Lindsay and Ashley asked that I come to the school to cheer them on.


Lindsay is preparing for the big race.

Ashley is being silly as she prepares for the race with her classmates.

"Six laps down."

Hailey and I were able to join in by running a lap with them. Hailey wanted to go again so she ran alone with her sister. (Mom was done for the day.)

At the finish line. Great job girls!


During the afternoon I tried to find out how to make a digital header for my blog that is personalized my way. I think that I have the template and background that I want, I just need a cute header. My program I am using is Adobe Photoshop Elements that I received from my friend. I, for the most part, know what I am doing, but there are the small things that I get lost on. Hopefully I will get a cute header soon so that I can stop changing my blog around every other day.

Then my brother and his two kids came over for some pizza and some fun game playing. We bought a Wii two weeks ago, and he had to join in on the fun. It is always fun to have them over.

Now it is time for bed. I thought it would be fun to set up a tent in the living room for the girls to sleep in tonight. They were really excited about it. We ate popcorn and watched the Waterhorse. It is now time for me to crawl in bed to start it all over again tomorrow and hey, I might even get to wake up to that sweet face in my bed again tomorrow.

Tuesday, May 20, 2008

Some Things that make my Life Easier

*My sister told me about a website that tells you when someone posts something new on their blog. It is called google reader. I check my google reader instead of going to all of the blogs that I reguarly check out. It saves a lot of time and this way I do not miss anything. The site is:
https://www.google.com/accounts/ServiceLogin?hl=en&nui=1&service=reader&continue=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.google.com%2Freader%2F%3Fhl%3Den

*I also have heard of a couple of websites that you can go to so that your blog will be published into a book. The sites are http://www.lulu.com/ and http://www.blurb.com/ . Between the two sites I think that I will use blurb.com since they will take your blog and download it, all you have to do is choose your template and voila, it is done.

*My friend brought us dinner about a month ago that was so good and very easy. Here is the recipe:

Chicken Enchiladas

Boil 2 Chicken Breasts and mix with Taco seasoning (You can also put the chicken into a crockpot and cook for 3 hours then put the seasoning)
Shred 1 lb Cheese (use jack cheese if you use green enchilada sauce, use cheddar cheese if you use red enchilada sauce. I prefer green enchilada sauce personally)
1 lg can Green or Red Enchilada sauce
Corn Tortillas

Spoon a thin layer of the enchilada sauce into bottom of a 9x13 pan. Warm tortillas so that they roll easily without breaking (I microwave them) Fill with Chicken, cheese and some of the green sauce. Then roll and place in dish. (I roll them while they are in the dish so it’s not a mess. Make enough to fill the pan. Reserve some sauce and cheese to put over the top when finished rolling the enchiladas. Bake at 350 until cheese is melted. (If you want to make it easier I put a layer of the enchilada sauce on the bottom of the pan, put a layer of cut up corn tortillas, then all of the shredded chicken, another layer of the cut up tortillas, add the rest of the enchilada sauch and add cheese. ) Thank you Kim for your recipe!

*When I plan things for Young Womens or when I look up ideas for the leaders I like to go to:
http://www.mormonshare.com/
http://ldsindex.org/
http://www.sugardoodle.net/
http://www.ywconnection.com/index.html

*Every week I get a Family Home Evening Lesson emailed to me. The lessons come complete with a snack, game and lesson. They are really fun. Here is the site for this:
http://www.ldsliving.com/
I also like to check out http://www.theideadoor.com/FHE.html#Quotes%20about%20Reading%20the%20Book%20of%20Mormon

and http://familiesinzion.com/lessons.html?rnd=0.058789907777957284#

*This site does not make things easier for me, but I really love to look at their products. It is http://www.abcdistributing.com/ If you order like three things they may ship each one separately so beware of that. My mom bought pajamas for Christmas for a good deal, but then they shipped like 5 pairs at different times to one) they did not get there till after Christmas and two) the shipping was high. It is just a fun site to see ideas or to buy like one thing at a time.

Please let me know if you know any cool websites that you would like to share.

Wednesday, May 14, 2008

What is in a Name?

One of the most important tasks of parenting is naming your child. This is because when you choose a name for your baby, you are creating the baby’s future. Your baby’s name is the single most important influence on the development of your child's personality and destiny. (This information was found on http://www.kabalarians.com/index.cfm)

It is so true. The name that you have influences so many things. Growing up at one time I was frustrated with my name. In third grade I changed my name to Jan until my teacher told my dad, who happened to work at the same school that I went to, so I had to change it back. I hated that when I would go and look for personalized trinkets I could NEVER find my name on anything.

It was not until I was older that I truly appreciated having an original name. One year at Girls Camp the leaders had copied everyones name onto a piece of paper along with what their name meant. I found out that day that my name meant, "God is Gracious." That is something that has stuck with me all of these years. It really was powerful for me.

I get comments all of the time now and on rare occassions people tell me that their granddaughters daughter or their next door neighbors cousin has my name. I was watching Wheel of Fortune the other day and there was a girl named Janessa. I was really excited. I have also heard that people were named Janessa because they saw my name somewhere like in our ward directory.

My niece was playing the Barbie Twelve Dancing Princesses game on the computer and realized that one of the girls name is Janessa. Once she told me I knew that I had to get everything that was associated with this movie.
I just picked up this book today at my girls Buy One Get One Free Book Fair at school. This is mine and no one will touch it. :)
This is the Janessa Doll McDonalds Happy Meal toy. It took a couple of happy meals for me to finally get my doll, but I got it.
My friend Kelly bought the actual doll for me two years ago for Christmas. I had to buy one for my girls to be able to play with, but this one will stay in its original package.
Here is proof that my name is actually in a book. How exciting.

I am so thankful to my parents for my name. It truly means a lot to me that they wanted me to be original. I have grown to love my name and would not change it for anything! (Now I need to teach people how to say my last name. You would think that everyone knows how to say Couch, but for some reason people butcher it all of the time. Isn't that something you learned in elementary school?)

Tuesday, May 13, 2008

I Would Love to Hear Your Answers

Are you related to anyone famous?
I am related to MacGyver on my Mom's side of the family, and Mitchell is related to Reba Mcentire. His father has a picture swinging next to her when they were kids.

What's your sign?
Sagitarrius

What's your favorite fruit?
I love pineapple juice but love grapes!

Do you like hot cheetos?
Yes, once I start eating them, I can not stop.

Do you like cheesecake?
I love cheesecake, especially strawberry.

Do you have a lot of close friends?
A handful of close friends. Lots of friends and acquaintances

Are you quiet or loud?
Quiet around people that I do not know, loud around my family.

Do you ever just sit back and think about things?
Too much sometimes

Are you easily amused?
I guess you could say that.

Do you laugh every day?
When Mitchell is around, yes. My girls are pretty funny also. I always tend to get a good laugh from them.

Do you like meeting new people?
I like to stay to myself or to stay with the friends I have. I am not too good at going up to people to make the first contact.

What do you feel strongly about?
My family, The Gospel, my friends.

Are you a compassionate person?
I would say that I am.

What's the last book you read?
Just finished Twilight. I am starting her next book New Moon.

Do you get bored easily?
I think so. I tend to do have the same routine over and over and it bores me at times. I need to throw something fun in there every now and again so that I have something fun to look forward to.

Do you like celebrity gossip?
I watch a lot of news that has celebrity gossip on it, but I do not look for celebrity gossip.

Do you follow trends or do you try to be original?
I'm not very original but I'm not very up on the whole trend thing either. I like to wear cute dresses to church, but other than that, I wear boring clothes.

Are you open about your feelings?
This blog has helped me to be pretty open about my feelings where I otherwise would not have been. I am pretty open to my husband and family though.

Who do you confide in?
My husband, my mom, my sisters/inlaw...depends upon what I need to confide in.

Are you a different person around different people?
As a person I'm ME - but I have a lot of different 'hats' I can wear when needed and depending on the situation

From 1 to 10 how shy are you?
Around new faces I am a 9, but around people that I already know I would say a 3 or so.

Are you a computer geek?
I would like to know what is going on with my slow computer. I would also love to learn how to make cute blog designs, but I am not a computer geek.

Are you addicted to the internet?
I would have to say that I am addicted to blogging, not to the internet.

Do you like coffee?
I have never drank it, and never will. I HATE the smell of it also.

Do you like to wear jewlery?
I wear earrings and my wedding ring and the occasional necklace or bracelet if it matches with my dress.

What kind of music do you like?
My radio is set to country, but I love soft rock and alternative also.

Your all time favorite band/singer?
I love the Eagles and Simon and Garfunkle.

Are you scared to kill spiders?
I am okay killing them if I have a shoe. I do not like using a tissue because I hate feeling the spider crunch. (SORRY but it is true)

Do you believe in God?
Yes and I know he believes in me

Ever been in a fist fight?
No

Do you have any siblings?
3 fabulous sisters, 4 wonderful brothers, 3 sister in laws, 4 brother in laws and a partridge in a pear tree.

How do you treat somebody your mad at?
I tend to ignore them. You can ask my husband, he knows first hand.

When you’re mad is there somebody who doesn't mind if you vent to them?
On the odd occasion I guess my hubby bares the brunt of my 'venting', whether he minds it or not. I usually vent to my mom.

Do you like to clean?
No, but I have to.

What kind of sense of humor do you have?
I have been told that I am sarcastic. I try to be funny, but it comes out all wrong. My hubby on the other hand is pretty funny.

How many pairs of shoes do you have?
I would say 10 or so. Most of them are church shoes or flipflops that need to be thrown away.

Can you keep a secret?
Yes, I can (Jared and Danielle would say otherwise though, funny story, but not for now. Lets just say that they both ganged up on me at one time!)

Do you like to go out to eat?
Yes! If I could go out to eat every day, I would.

Do you cook?
Only when I have to.

Do you like Halloween?
Yes, it is so much fun.

What's you favorite season?
Definately summer, but I love the flowers during the spring.

Favorite month?
June

Do you like shopping for gifts?
Yes!

What are you top 4 favorite TV shows?
American Idol, Biggest Loser, Little People Big World and Lost

Do you play an instrument? If no what do you want to learn to play?
I can play the piano, but not very well.

What's your favorite holiday?
Christmas!

Do you like smores?
Yes, if I think about making them when we are camping.

Favorite candy?
Anything with carmel in it!

What do you want to be when you grow up?
I am grown up, but I wanted to be a mother and a teacher.

Your turn!

Sunday, May 11, 2008

Come and Camp with Us

Every once in awhile you need a reguvination like we had this weekend. We went to a KOA Campground and stayed in a two room cabin. The campground included an indoor swimming pool, store, gameroom, flushable toilets, electricity hot showers and best of all it was less than a mile from the beach! My kind of camping.

On Friday we set up our camp then headed down to the ocean. As we were getting out of our truck a guy yelled down to me that there were whales that you can see. We ran to a ledge and sure enough there were whales everywhere. You could see their backs then a spout of water coming up. They were pretty far away from us, but you could tell it was a whale. I wish that my camera could zoom in well enough to capture the moment, but I will forever remember it. It was amazing.

That night we had started a campfire and ate hotdogs and roasted marshmellows. I had everything for smores, but we were all too cold and too tired to care so we hopped in our comfy sleeping bags and watched a movie. (That is the joy of having electricity while you are camping.)

Saturday morning we went into Astoria. It is a beautiful city. We went to Pier 36 to see the sea lions. They were pretty funny to watch. You can see a picture of them in our slideshow. Later that afternoon we went on a bike ride and then Jared and Danielle came to visit us. The girls had fun showing them their bunkbeds and the cabin. After swimming with them for about two hours we went out to a great seafood restaurant. I tried calamari and mussels, they were pretty good. Lindsay ordered fried clams for her meal, sometimes she surprises us. It wa s fun to have them join us for the night.

During the whole trip Mitchell was so excited to go hanggliding which he has not done for about 9 years. He bought a hangglider about 2 months ago and he was determined to try it out. He spoke with a park ranger and they told him that it was illegal to hangglide on the beach that we were on so we went down the beach a little bit. He found the perfect spot that he was able to fly at. While he set up his glider the girls were able to play in the sand.

The wind was pretty strong and was blowing in the wrong direction so he was unable to fly very much. He did get a couple of feet off the ground. In this video the wind changes direction as he tries to fly and you will see what happens. It was pretty funny.

He actually did really well. If it were not for the strong winds, he would have been able to fly. It was still fun to watch and it brought back a lot of memories of when we were newlyweds in Utah where he would fly at the point of the mountain every other weekend.

What a wonderful weekend we had. We are already looking forward to the time that we will go back next summer.

Amazing Camping Trip

Wednesday, May 7, 2008

A Good Excuse

If you came to my home right now you would find a house in shambles. You would find dishes stacked up, a child that did not get a bath today (not all my fault, she did not ask for one), children fed dinner from a cereal box and me laying on the couch in another world. This is all because of a book.

I am not a huge fan of reading. The only books that I really read are books written by Jack Weyland. Somehow he knows how to reach into my heart and touch me. Until now! My sister and a lot of people in my ward keep talking about the book "Twilight". I finally borrowed it from my sister a couple of weeks ago. It sat on my counter for a week or so before I finally picked it up. I started to read it when I was home after my surgery, but did not really get into it. This had to do with me not feeling very good. After a week of not reading I knew that I had to keep trying and get into it again. I am glad that I did.

It is such an amazing story. I will not go into details just incase any of you have not read it, I do not want to spoil it. I have the second book that I can not pick up until I know that I have time to actually sit down and read it without feeling guilty. Stephenie Meyer is a wonderful author and I really look forward to reading her books and the rest of the Twilight series.

So, if any of you have read the book let me know what you think. If you have not read it, go and get it now. It truly is amazing!

Monday, May 5, 2008

Please Help Keep Me Sane

I love my children so much but lately it feels like a war is going on in my home. For some reason my children do NOT listen to me. I have no idea where I went wrong. They are great at church, at friends homes and at school but for some reason, when they are at home the claws come out or something. I actually got a letter from the Principal of the girls school telling me what a great helper Ashley is. What a great thing for someone to say about your daughter! We want to see that here at home.

Growing up with 7 kids in the home I remember fighting, but never calling names and never hitting or being mean. If we did not like someone, we just ignored them and went to another brother or sister to play with. I seriously do not remember yelling in my home (other than the time that I threw a brush at my brother. OUCH! Sorry Jared but you know you deserved it Ha Ha!). I remember playing alot and playing outside.

That might be my thing. We do not have a fenced backyard so it is hard for me to let my kids outside without Hailey knowing they are there. If Hailey found out then I have to go out with her and at times I do not feel like doing that. I guess that would help.

I love watching Super Nanny. She is really into sitting in the naughty spot. I do this but 5 minutes later they are at it again.

For the mean time, if anyone has any suggestions, please share! I am at my wits end.

Friday, May 2, 2008

Happy 32nd Birthday Mitchell...Your Old!

Mitchell, this songs for you since I know that you adore New Kids on the Block. Ha Ha!

Costco cakes are the best. I was selfish and got my favorite kind, buttercream frosting with strawberry mousse filling. YUMMY! The basketball was for the NBA finals that are happening, and just because it was already made. :) GO JAZZ!

I forgot to buy the candles so we improvised and put matches on the cake instead. I guess they work.

We are going on a family camping trip next weekend that I should buy him some fun camping stuff for his birthday.

We have had our eye on this camping kitchen and stove for some time now. It will be perfect!


Happy Birthday Mitchell! We love you!